Sometimes you have to realize that you just cannot solve all the problems in the world. Not even in your immediate world. It's a hard lesson- and for me needs to be re-learned over and over.
All the good intentions in the world will not make a wrong, right. All the reasoning you put forth can't make others listen and too, maybe your rationale is flawed and you're the last to know. That's just the way it is.
A person with an overabundance...even an abundance of care and love can only do so much at any given time despite wishes to the contrary.
It's a good thing to quit trying to change the unchangeable, immutable. That does NOT mean give up nor does it mean to stop looking for ways to help others. It just means here in this blog anyway, to do ones best and let go, figuratively speaking, of the steering wheel and let our Maker make the decisions, which he does anyway without our help, thankyewverymuch. :-)