Friday, November 20, 2020

Tempus Fugit


The Header pic was last week until three days of high winds took all the leaves away. 

 Time does fly.  That is a certainty..  You celebrate New Years, you turn around twice and it's the 4th of July.  Independence Day.  Blink three times and it's Christmas.  Life is like a windstorm blowing through.  The short span isn't obvious until you get older.  Several people have written their comments to that phenom when I have written of it several times before.  How time seems to drag by on heavy chains when you are a child or teen...and somewhere in your twenties, it seems a normal type pace, but then...then it speeds up.  Never enough hours in the say when you are busy...and that idea I said at first..turn around and months, a half a year of your life gone, up in smoke. 

Then, I was reminded yesterday on the way home after smelling creosote  heavily scenting the outside air as I drove toward the hospital.  I smiled...and in my mind went back to seven years of age.  Where I and a cousin one year older than I were standing beside a country roadside while my mother was in a store.  It was summer...hotter than a fire place all roaring in the winter and the creosote oder was rising up from the roadbed.  It was a good day for Rich and me and we were having a sweaty, hot but enjoyable time while waiting for mother.  I go back to that time every time I smell that oder.  Rarely do,  but always a sweet memory.  Mother brought us out a Coke to share.  Then  we got a Cremesicle. Orange sherbet coated vanilla ice cream. 

Fragrance, smell if you will, is a perfect Time Machine.  If I smell Johnson Paste Floor Wax (I'm sure it is not made any more) I go back to my grandmother's beautiful home in Roanoke.  Hardwood floors gleaming throughout all levels, highly polished and always that paste wax oder.  The quiet of a ticking clock...the beautiful wood cabinetry, the leather chairs and couch...the Windsor Chairs in the reception area, the wooden stair case upstairs; the heavy wooden front door with ornate thick, leaded and stained glass panels in it..so many things.  Green window shades at every window pulled just right for day.  I see them all sniffing floor paste wax.  Go outside of Grandma's house, and when the fog lifts see the coal dust settled on the porches from all the coal furnaces warming homes all over the city.  And the distinctive smell of coal burning in those furnaces.  As a little girl, I disliked it, but if I could smell it now, I would smile. 

Occasionally in a dream I go back there and hep wash dishes with a bar of Ivory soap.  Yes.  Seriously.  I'm not that old, but they were.

What do you remember most from your earlier childhood?  And did you also collect Little Lulu and Superman and Donald Duck? 




16 comments:

  1. I'd say your blog today is a great Thanksgiving tribute. How
    lovely to have fond memories of times past. There are moments
    in my life when I think back on the days when young and my
    maternal grandmother taught me to crochet and embroider. I do
    both to this day and each project I dedicate to her in my mind. And, yep, how did it get to be late Nov and Thanksgiving already? I'm trying to figure out how it got to
    be Friday again.

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  2. You speak the truth about time. My dad used to say how quickly times passed, but at that point in my life I was too busy to truly notice it. Since retirement and now, in the midst of a pandemic, I sure do.

    Fresh bread baking and clean laundry reminds me of my mom. Every Monday afternoon, we'd come home from school and the laundry would be folded and on the table for us to pick up and take to our rooms. And on the cupboard were several loaves of bread, some cool enough that I could have a heel as a treat!

    Take care and stay well!u

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  3. Smells certainly trigger time travel!

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  4. Dearest Carole,
    Yes, you brought back childhood memories for me as well. Watching as a little girl in the early 50s Mom clean the windows. Vinegar in the water, Brasso for polishing the brass center handle for opening those windows, inwards. Crumpled together newspaper for making those windows shine... All scents from the 'past'.
    Our neighbors sold coal and had heaps of them, always lots of dust around too. What a hard and dirty job, tossing those coal bags on their back to load and unload. Then down into a cellar, mainly halfway into the ground, near the front door... for inside reach from below.
    All that is gone and it was like yesterday!
    Barty's passing made me realize that he was with me for almost one quart of my life. Say that three times out loud and we're gone; POOF - TIME IS UP!!! Scary...
    That's one reason for living in the day, for speaking out and doing things that need to be done, said or otherwise handled. Tomorrow might be too late.
    Being married to an almost twentytwo year older husband has made me live a lot more time conscious than most of my age. It pays off and it is the only thing that all young(er) people ought to heed caution for. Don't postpone things, it usually is a lot later than you think it is.
    As for fall foliage, our golden sugar maple had its leaves on for maybe 3 days. We watched from the balcony down and talked about its view. Then all the rain and the leaves were down in no time! No beauty this fall...
    Hugs,
    Mariette

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  5. It's funny you mentioning the road-smell. Like you, a 'road' memory of mine has to do with hot summers: travelling on our yearly holiday, the family would pass over the Rockies and sometimes get stuck waiting in a line of cars and trucks for road-menders to let us by. The heat and the smell of hot tar takes me right back there...

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    1. It's amazing how our sense of smell triggers strong memories.

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  6. It is funny how smells bring back memories. Glad you got to recall some fond ones. XO

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  7. Carole what a wonderful post and it did start my mind to wonder back to the sweet aromas from years gone by.
    For instance, when walking thru dried leaves, I'm reminded of my very short stint learning to hand tobacco when I was a child. Dried fall leaves remind me of the tobacco drying barn.
    Hugs Cecilia

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  8. PS I'm 100% city girl. My great uncle had a REAL farm, chicken coops, dairy cows, veggies growing and he grew tobacco too.
    I even (try) milking a cow. I'm very thankful my milk comes in a carton
    Hugs
    Cecilia

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  9. PS I learned one never wants to be down wind from a hug chicken coop nor does one want to collect the eggs.

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  10. Time flies indeed. I can’t believe it’s already Thanksgiving next week.
    I agree fragrance is a perfect time machine. Fragrant olive brings me back to my childhood as my home in my hometown had a large fragrant olive tree and I always loved the smell when flowers were blossoming :-)

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  11. I am so glad I dropped by this morning, a damn good read

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  12. Still have my Little Lulu comics stored away. But a couple years ago they changed the formula of Vicks VapoRub - not much, but it's less eucalyptus and more medicine-ly. So all those grade school winters after I had my tonsils out don't come back quite the same

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    1. I noticed that and the consistency changed too. Loose.

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  13. The ocean smell always takes me back to my childhood and exploring the tide pools with my dad. :)

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